It's Springtime! Get your Garage Sale List together!

There are several things that came up in conversation over the Winter that my kids or I would like to have that are clearly garage sale purchases. For instance, my son wants a soccer net. Now, I can imagine that a lot of soccer nets may get torn or broken before they are discarded. I can also imagine that a well built soccer net that has survived a kid or two would be just the kind of cumbersome thing someone would like to unload at a garage sale. There are several of these kinds of things that have come up over Winter which have inspired another one of my many lists. I love lists. They keep me focused, remind and applaud me when entries are crossed off. So, anywho, I made up a Garage Sale list for 2009 just to get us excited for Springtime Garage Sale season. If you keep a Garage Sale lookout list you can share it with other garage saling friends. You may find that someone you share your list with has something on your list that they want to dispose of. For instance, my mom seems to spot things that I am looking for rather quickly (sometimes in her basement!). For some items, you have to tell everyone you know and be patient. There have been two such items that I waited nearly two seasons for before I landed them one of which was an upright freezer. I scored it for $50 and it was only 3 years old! The other was a bike trailer. I told everyone I knew about my desire for a bike trailer. Right about when I was going to give up and pay retail I finally found one right down the street. Now the part where my husband backed the van over the beloved bike trailer is another story. So if you see another bike trailer out there, I am on the hunt again. Ugh!

In case I get lucky with any of my readers, here is my current list. I haven't browsed Craigs List or FreeCycle.com lately so maybe I'll get lucky there?

Garage Sale 2009 List

Hamburger press/maker/shaper
Garlic Press – preferably pampered chef
Pasta maker
Pastry/Pasta roller for ravioli edges
Cake décor tools
Attachments for kitchen aid mixer

Girly Bedroom Lamp
Girly Trash Can
White/floral vintage curtains for girly room

Soccer net for backyard

Always:
Picture frames – black, white & silver 11x14 and bigger
Gift wrap & bows
Girly hair accessories
Kids clothes/snow suits/boots/etc
Picnic table - large with attached bench (octagon preferably but any kind)
Yard tools (rakes, shovels, bulb planter, hand shovels, etc)

Art Management 101

Young children come home from school, Sunday school, and other places with wonderful art projects they've made. We have a craft area for the kids so they can create many masterpieces right at home. I really appreciate the words of advice that our preschool gave with regard to appreciating their masterpieces: Don’t ask what it is, instead ask them to tell you about it. Luckily I got that advice pretty early on in my mothering career so I haven’t made too many of those “what is THIS?” blunders when I should have known that it was an airplane or a self portrait or whatever. Even though I get great explanations about the artwork that enters my house, I can not be the only one guilty of thinking “WHERE am I going to put this?” when praising my child on the 24”x36” poster about God creating the world that they made in Sunday school. I have some rules of thumb to prevent my kids’ artwork from cluttering up my house.

1) If it is mostly school-made and not child-made it goes in the trash the evening of the same day it entered the house

a. “school-made” means that the school printed out, cut out or laid out all the parts and the child merely put them together in the manner they were instructed leaving no creative expression from the child
b. “Child-made” means that the idea or creative spin on the project came from the child rather than specifically guided instructions from someone else.

2) There must be a clearly defined area for artwork to be displayed, (usually a door, a framed bulletin board or some other clearly defined area), and that area is NOT the refrigerator!

3) Coloring pages get bottom priority to all other child-made projects and should not occupy more than 50% of the designated art display area.

4) Artwork must be rotated as it comes in so that it does not spill outside the designated art display area.

a. “Rotation” means that one artwork finds the trash as another artwork finds a place on the designated art display area
b. Should artwork appear that you do not want to find the trashcan but has overstayed its welcome, (beyond 3 months or out of season), see rule 6), 7) or 8).

5) One piece of artwork is not to overlap another. (This keeps the designated art display area from becoming cluttered and it truly shows off the pieces that are there.)

6) If it is something truly wonderful that we want around for a long time it gets a frame and is placed somewhere in the house.

7) If the artwork is of construction paper size or smaller and is very special we may place it in the posterity box or with the seasonal decorations if it is seasonal so it can be displayed annually.

8) If the artwork is something that we do not want in a frame or can not frame due to the size/shape/construction then we will take a digital photo of it (or scan it) before disposing of it and once we have several pictures of various art pieces we will order an art photo book of the pictures for each child/artist.

9) If the work of art is something that can not be taped or pinned to the designated art display area it may sit on the counter for the remainder of the day that it arrived and if the child does not want to part with it they may keep it in their room until their little brother destroys it or I find it trampled on the floor somewhere or it is no longer coveted and I can safely dispose of it.

My kids are not aware of these “rules” and this is the first time I have ever written them. These guidelines that I have implemented really do keep the peace and keep order in our house. The quantity of artwork that will enter this house could easily fill several rooms in our house by the time they graduate high school if I didn’t have some sort of artwork storage/display system. These rules also help to alleviate the mother’s guilt that often accompanies disposing of artwork.

P.S. The picture of Mary with baby Jesus above is in a frame in our living room. Decorating your home with your children's artwork can be both special and frugal.

Frugal Habits – Skip the Juice, Eat the Fruit

We all know that juice is packed with calories. I haven’t come across too many parents who give their kids free reign with regard to juice intake. Juice that is truly juice, 100% fruit juice, has many health benefits as evidenced by the nutrition label on the container with all the vitamins. Juice comes from fruit so what is the harm? It is a processed food that strips away the fiber from a fruit. It is also expensive, (as are all processed foods that claim to be “healthy”). Eating the fruit that juice is made from is much more beneficial than consuming just the juice from the same fruit and it is usually less expensive. I know that someone reading this wants to bring up the fact that some juices are fortified with additional vitamins. If you aren’t eating a well-rounded diet that provides all of your required daily vitamins perhaps your doctor will provide you with a script for a vitamin, (cheaper than over the counter vitamins), otherwise just eat a healthy well-rounded diet of whole foods with natural fibers that will satisfy your hunger without excessive calorie intake (yea, sure, says the sugar addict) and save some bucks on unnecessary juice.

Do my kids drink juice you ask? Sometimes they have orange juice with their breakfast but otherwise we do not buy any other juice keeping the grocery bill down and fruit consumption up. On top of that, juice is a special treat to my kids and is much more appreciated that way.

Keep your Hand Towels Off the Floor

If your kids are like my kids and every other kid that visits my house, they find it impossible to keep a hand towel off the floor. They just can not do it. So rather than fight them about it just clip the towel on the towel bar with a large binder clip underneath.








Or have a knitting relative make these button towels for you:

Blarney Rice

Sometimes a new recipe sounds like a good idea when placed on the menu weeks in advance but when the time comes to putting it together I sometimes have second thoughts. This happened last Friday when my in-laws were visiting and I wanted to try a new split-pea-over-rice recipe. I had originally come across the recipe in search of looking for ways to use up my pantry items. I was also looking for a gluten free recipe for my mother-in-law. This recipe fit the bill so I put it on our menu. On Friday, the thought of having split-pea-over rice did not sound appealing but then I also felt that it may be wrong to serve such goup to my in-laws but I did it anyway. I decided to cook some flounder on the side so we would have something in our bellies should the green goup not work out. Surprisingly we all liked it . . . well, at least 1 out of 3 kids and 4 adults. So I thought it would be nice to brainstorm a better name for it since I could only think of it as split-pea goup. We decided to adopt my father-in-law’s “Blarney Rice” idea since it was green and rather close to Saint Patrick’s day. I don’t think we’ll have this dish once a week or anything but it was super cheap, pretty tasty, quick to throw together and healthy so we’ll see it repeated in this house even if it isn’t 'til next Saint Patrick’s Day.

Organize a Kid’s Birthday Party

I have held 4 or 5 at-home birthday parties for my kids, (or perhaps more but I have chosen to block out the memories). I think I may finally have it down to a science. When I leave too much left unplanned things can get a little crazy especially with 10 six and seven year olds dressed in Star Wars costumes, sporting their best light saber moves. Parties are usually 2 hours long and on a couple occasions I have said to my husband, “Only 1 hour and 20 minutes left”, and soon after, “Only 1 hour left, Honey. We can do it!” So, this past weekend I believe I have conquered the at-home birthday party challenge. I put together a party agenda and printed two copies. I taped up a copy in each location where we would be sure to see it so we could refer to the agenda at any time. In the past, I had an idea of which games and things we would do but didn’t necessarily have the location and order of things figured out thinking it was best to see how the party was going first before deciding. I had good intentions but with a load of young kids filling the house and my mind with loud noises I could barely think about what to do next. But, for this last party, I had the order of events figured out exactly how and when we would do them and it was a lot of fun. I had to look at the clock only to make sure we would have enough time to fit it all in, not to see how much longer we had to endure. The kids and adults had a blast.

An at-home party is classic. There is nothing like it. And it is super cheap, if you don’t get sucked into spending money on unnecessary things. Kids, (at least mine), love having a gaggle of friends over to their house to celebrate. With all the friends and talk and games, no one is going to notice that you are using white paper plates and napkins instead of fancy princess ones that get thrown out any way. The games cost only some parental guidance, creativity and energy, (which can be easily accessed with caffeine). Noone wants those junky little party favors that end up trashing up people’s homes until they break or get thrown away. Heck, using Evite for your invitations is not only “green” but also free. I do, however, use real cards for thank you notes but those can be purchased rather inexpensively.

Here is the agenda that worked for us: If planning an at-home party scares you, just think it out ahead of time and organize an agenda to pull it off smoothly. Also, you will be glad you saved yourself loads of money!

Princess Party Agenda

1) Eat Pancakes & Apple Juice (upstairs)
2) Introduce yourself and Name Your Favorite Princess/Hero & Why while eating Pancakes
3) Princess Story Time (living room)
4) Pin the Crown on the Princess (basement)
5) Dance Party music (basement)
6) Musical Thrones and/or Pass the Princess Slipper (basement)
7) Steal the Slipper or Queen/King Says (living room)
8) Cake (dining room)
9) Presents (living room)
10) Easter Egg Hunt (basement) -- (at birthday girl's request)
11) Guess how many candy eggs are in the jar while parents arrive.

Oh and here is a picture of the castle cake I made just to give you a good laugh!

Homemade Ravioli

I should have written about the Ravioli we had last week. It was the first time I have ever attempted homemade pasta and I am proud to report that it was a huge hit. Having a picture in my head of the kids helping me roll out the dough and crimping the edges together that didn't happen is probably one of the reasons I wasn't so excited to write about it. The kids' disinterest in helping me in the kitchen is rare so that was a bit of a disappointment. I didn't take any pictures because, to be honest, the ravioli weren't pretty but they were delicious. Everyone loved them so much, (after getting past apperances), that I am certain that the next time I say we're going to make ravioli they will come running with excitement to help me.

Making the ravioli wasn't nearly as difficult as I had suspected it would be but that's really because I used my handy food processor. It isn't traditional or perhaps authentic but it worked. Rolling the dough out was a bit of a challenge because the dough was rather tough but it was not as difficult as I had imagined. The rest was pretty much a breeze. I made the ravioli one day ahead and put them in an airtight container separating them with waxed paper. I lost one or two ravioli because they adhered to the waxed paper with such a vengence that they tore apart when I tried to pry them off. I boiled them in two batches and for the second batch I just plopped them into the boiling water, paper and all, and they eventually boiled off the paper. I don't know how to store them next time between the prep work and boiling process, (suggestions will be appreciated), but I do know that we will be making it again soon.

I loosely followed these recipes: http://www.recipezaar.com/Homemade-Pasta-3474 & http://www.recipezaar.com/Homemade-Ravioli-with-Tomato-Sauce-58226

Consolidate Your Grocery Bags!

I just made this handy dandy grocery bag holder and I am quite pleased with it. I used to have all my grocery bags stuffed on a bottom kitchen cupboard shelf which was fine but they took up the entire shelf. So, I took one of those plastic Cascade Capsule boxes that you get at Sam’s, Costco or BJs., turned it upside down and cut a hole in it. I taped around the hole so the jagged edge from my not-so-smooth cutting did not rip the bags as I pulled them out. Then I filled the box with my grocery bags using the little door on top where you get your capsules out. Check it out. It holds plenty of bags and takes up minimal space. I also just happen to like anything square in shape. Round containers waste so much space. Ahh, it’s nice to live a simple life where the little things can make you so happy.

This could also be done using a plastic coffee can or a coffee can with a plastic lid or an oatmeal container or, well, just about anything. First consider the shelf space that you want your bag container to fit and then start thinking of your recyclables that would work in that space.

Top 10 Reasons Why Cooking and Baking from Scratch is Superior to Eating Food made from Boxes and Mixes:

10) Contrary to what you may think, cooking and baking from scratch really is as easy as making it from a box

9) It is more time consuming to research the harmful effects of those big artificial ingredients on a box than to just mix it yourself

8) Scratch cooking tastes better once you cut your taste buds off from the processed food wagon

7) It has been predicted that our generation, (30s/40s), and those born after us will NOT outlive our elders – why do you think this is?

6) You will consume significantly less sodium eating homemade foods than boxed/processed and that will make your heart happy

5) Foods that come from real plants and animals are more nutricious than man-made non-pronounceable ingredients

4) You can drop an expensive vitamin habit by getting all your vitamins and minerals from eating homemade food

3) Cooking/baking from scratch is almost always less expensive

2) To teach your children to cook healthy nutritious food is to give them lifelong tools for living a long healthy life

And the Number 1 Reason That Cooking and Baking from Scratch is Superior to Eating Food from Boxes and Mixes (drum roll)

1) Homemade/scratch food is made with love

Stop Renting your Wardrobe

I have been washing and ironing my husband’s work shirts for 5 ½ years now (gasp!) and was interested to hear, on the radio the other day, that stay-at-home moms are getting hit with cutbacks by having to iron the family’s clothing rather than sending them to the drycleaner. I had to laugh at the horrible lives of these stay-at-home mothers ironing for the first time in years. More evidence of how spoiled middle-class Americans really are for the comment to have even been made.

When purchasing new clothing I always skip over things that must be dry cleaned. That’s right, ALWAYS, with the small exception of business suits. If you are paying to have your clothes dry cleaned you will be paying more in the long run to keep them than you paid to buy them. I see it as rental wear and I refuse to “rent” my clothes. Due to the available fabrics years ago, our garment choices were limited and if you were a working professional, dry cleaning was a necessary evil. Now, there are so many alternatives to the dry-clean-only fabrics, (aside from the traditional suit which seems to be reserved for interviews only these days) that there is no “need” for such things in our wardrobes. Sometimes I wish I had a wasteful habit like regular dry cleaning so that I would have a way to save some money to put to better use..